Im scared to take a test... please help!?

Af is due around the same time! I am scared too! The only symptom I have is sore . I try not to read into symptoms too much. But my cycle has been so crazy the last few months! But I am hoping this is my month. Do you have any other children? I have a 3 year old daughter, but I think I am just as scared as I was when we were trying to have her!